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 If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?

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PostSubject: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   19th October 2015, 11:45 am

From my experience, my parents don't force me to learn in faculty that they like but I see this from people who surround me.
For instance, now my sister is studying Mattayom 5.
She has to find out the faculty that she wants to learn.
She told me that she likes Mathematics and wanna learn in Faculty of Education majoring Mathematical.
On the other hands, my mom wants her to learn in faculty of Pharmacy and my dad wants her to learn in Faculty of Commerce and Accountancy.
hahaha what should you do if you face this problem ?

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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   19th October 2015, 12:16 pm

From my own experiences, when someone suggests me to do something that I don't like.
I will ask myself first, if I can do it or if it exactly good for me.
It's like when my mom suggests me to study at faculty of Education.
Fortunately, my answer is "YES it is".
So, I follow my parent suggestion without any doubt.
It's not bad way. And now my parents and I are happy with our decision together.

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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   19th October 2015, 10:19 pm

I never experience this because my mom always lets me do whatever I want to.
It has to be a good/right thing to do. I always follow my interest.
I decide my own where to study and what to do.
I get some suggestions from my mom and my teachers, though.
If they force me to study in the faculty that I don't want to,
I'll explain my reasons to them nicely and clearly.
I truly believe that they will definitely understand. Smile

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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   20th October 2015, 8:25 pm

I would tell the reason to my parents why I don't want to learn in that faculty. Studying in the faculty that we don't like causes us to suffer from a lot of situations. For example, if we were force to learn English but we don't like it, we will be nervous and unhappy. Fortunately, my parents never ever force me to learn what I don't want to learn. They always encourage me to learn what I really want.


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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   20th October 2015, 9:12 pm

I should do whatever they want me to.
I know that they want their kids to have a better life.
Every choice they gave us, I know they considered very well that it's good and proper.
Although I don't like or unhappy with it, it at least makes our parents proud. Smile

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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   21st October 2015, 7:42 am

I'll resist that I don't want to study in that faculty and explain my reasons why I don't like it.
Then, I'll tell what is my real desire and reasons.
I know that they want us to have a good education which leads to a good job in the future so they try to choose the best one.
But this is our live, we have to choose our own way which one is suitable for our abilities.

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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   21st October 2015, 10:08 pm

I will talk to them about the reason why I don't like it.
It is my life and my way so I will learn in the faculty that I like.

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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   22nd October 2015, 5:43 pm

Fortunately, My parents and I discuss about my faculty before I'll choose.
I love ENGLISH and my parents like TEACHER.
So English teacher is a best choice for us.
I decide to be a English teacher because I want my parent proud of me.
I see smile on their face when they said "My only one daughter is English teacher."

For now ..... I still like English. But I don't like to be a teacher.
I think I have to do a hard work. I have to patient with something that I don't like.
Only teach students isn't hard. But I must deal with an old teacher or school principal.

I respect myself. I decide to be English teacher by myself.
So I have to do my best.


In your case, I think you have to learn what you don't want to be. When it's finished.
You'll free to do what you want.



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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   22nd October 2015, 11:37 pm

Actually, I experienced this case before.
After I've finished high school, my family wanted me to be a teacher.
But I never thought that I would be a teacher before.
I hated the way teacher wore and I hated the way of teacher's life as well.
By the way, they were just like nonsense idea when I was young.
Finally, when time came I had to choose.
And I applied to the faculty of education, MSU.
Even though I wished I would get the second place, EG of KKU.
Yes! I got it, EN MSU.
One thing that I got from this story is going to be ''goodwill'' from our family.
Now, I think I love it, I love the way I am and I love the way they choose for me.
I want to say thank you for my family. I'll try my best!!!!

Smile Smile Smile Smile Smile Smile Smile Smile Smile
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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   23rd October 2015, 9:26 am

I think it's my life so I have the right to make a decision by myself.
For me, my parents respect what I have chosen (or my decision).
They just "suggest" me what I should do or what is important to me.
But, I will follow them or not, it 's up to me.

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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   24th October 2015, 12:48 am

First, I will explain for them and show them the reason why I can't do for what they want me to do.
Luckily, my parents never say anything about this. This is my choice, and I am the one that make the decision. They always let me learn from mistake. They only keep an eye on me, but not telling me what to do. Thank you mom and dad for let me choose my own way of life.

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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   26th October 2015, 8:46 am

I will explain the reasons to my parents.
I think it will be better if we talk to them.
From my experience, my parents respect my decision.
They never force me to do what I do not like.
They told me that it's my future so I have to choose it by myself.

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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   30th October 2015, 9:30 pm

That never happens to me. My parents respect my decision. It is my call. I have a right to do whatever I please. But be sure that what you do must not affect people around you in negative ways.
And you yourself have to do what you think that it will lead you to prosper not decline.
Everyone has a dream ,but that dream has to base on possibility and reality.

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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   1st November 2015, 7:50 pm

If it happens to me,
the best way to solve this problem is "talking with reason".
It would be better. ^ ^
Fortunately, my parents respect my decision and suggest me in sometimes.

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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   1st November 2015, 9:00 pm

์Nobody can force one to do what they want at all. Respect your decision!
Don't blame the others!

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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   2nd November 2015, 12:33 pm

Actually, my parents never did that to me, but if it happens to me I would ask them for reasons.
I think parents always want us all the best in the world so, I personally will listen to their reasons
first. Then, I will them them my reason of what I desire to do. However, at the end of the day, I am
the one decide my route to go. I do agree to Rungphet031 that No one can force us to do this and
that, It all depends on you.

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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   4th November 2015, 4:18 pm

I ever think to be a nurse when I study in the primary school.
Until in high school, I change my mind, I don't want to be a nurse at all.
Nearly entrance to the university, I don't know the career that I want to do in the future.
However; my dad tell me that " I want you to be a teacher", so I start to think about teacher and decide to choose teacher. Nowadays, I like and love to be a teacher in nearly future. I don't know when I love this career. Everything can change,our parents choose the best thing to us.

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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   26th November 2015, 4:56 pm

I will ignore their requirement because I want to study what I want.
Actually, my parents never tell me what I have to study, I decided on my own.
I would like to thank you them for letting me decide what I want to study.


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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   27th November 2015, 1:36 pm

My parents ever told me that they want me to study in the faculty of education, but they never force me.
They just tell me to keep it as a choice before determine to choose the faculty for studying in the university life however it based on my decision. They know that I won't follow if there is someone force me to do what I don't want to do. Nevertheless, I'm still studying at the faculty of education because at that time, I think teacher is a stable career that make me choose to study in this faculty.

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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   29th November 2015, 9:21 am

I will talk to them and make them understand that the faculty is the thing that I have to choose by my self.
I have to be with them in all of my life. If I'm not happy with my faculty or my job, my entire life wouldn't be happy too.


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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   29th November 2015, 10:08 am

I will explain my reasons to my parents why I don't want to learn.
I think they will understand, I should have good reason enough.

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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   29th November 2015, 3:52 pm

Umm. It's so sensitive question for me.
I was experienced this situation before. I have to choose what I want to do VS what it make me have a better life.
I have chosen what it make me have a better life. Right now, I'm studying Education Faculty. It's not bad to study here. Actually,
I want to study any Faculty that I will be learn about English.
I was thought about Faculty of Hotel and Tourism Management and Faculty Human Social Science before.

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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   29th November 2015, 4:12 pm

I will negotiate with them and I believe that my parents must understand me.
They know me more than others so If I want to learn in any faculty, they will support me.
I think that it is quite sad that the one you love will not understand you.
So just try to explain with them, do not scare them.
Every parents will understand you.

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PostSubject: Re: If your parents want you to learn in the faculty that you don't like, what should you do ?   29th November 2015, 5:05 pm

First, I will ask myself that can I do it? I don't want to force my parents because I know they had more experience than me, but sometimes I want to have my dicision. I always told my parents that I can learn, but in the future let it be my own decision before.

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