If you were a parent, how would you raise your kids?

If there were two choices for you to choose between raising your kids by giving everything they want and not letting they worry or suffer, raising they like gods and raising your kids by letting them face the real world and teach them to live on their own and not giving them stuff when their need but teach them to find the way to get those stuff the want by themselves, raising they like a normal children.
So, if you were a parent, how would you raise your kids?

On-anong 061 4EN

If I were a parent, I would raise my kids similar to the second choice.
I mean letting them face the real world and teach them to live on their own ways.
I would not give them stuff when they need but teach them to find the way to get those stuff by themselves.
I would let them save their own money and use it only when they need.
However, as a parent I would take a look quitely with all of their steps as their best adviser who always beside them in every situations of their life and has a warm hug when they stumble.


Wanida 032 4EN

"Letting them face the real world and teach them to live on their own and not giving them stuff when they need but teach them to find the way to get those stuff they want buy themselves, raising them like the normal children."
I buy this! I mean I will treat my kids like this.
I am treated like this from my parents too.
I think it works a lot because you do things by yourself
and when you succeed on something you will truly be proud of yourself.

Kuntida 005 3EN

For me, if I were a parent, I would raise my children in the same way as my parents do.
I'll give them freedom to choose their own way of life, I won't manage or determine their future.
I'll be not only a mother but also a friend or a sister, I want them to feel free to ask or talk to me.
Additionally, I'll be beside them and give them the advice when they want.
I think the way we raise our children is very important, so we have to concern a lot.
So once in your life being the role of mother, you should do it with your best.

Suwara 044 3EN

Could I raise by my own way? If I could have a chance to be a parent, I will teach my kids to be careful to live their own lives. That's because safety is the most necessary thing of all. Leading them to the right way when the get lost. I believe that during their growth period, there are many tests in their life which are good and bad things. They have to handle with those by themselves but not let those bad thing obsess their mind. Teach them to see the valuable thing and be their side. Love them and be a good role model. Just like the saying "The apple doesn't fall far from the tree."

Supalak 034 4EN

If I were a parent, I would raise my kids learn to face the real world
and live on their own life. I will let them learn from the mistakes and experiences.
It might be a good way to make them grow up as a good person.

Papassorn

I don't know what would happen if I have children of my own.
I would love them so much. I can say that we will let them do anything
they want at this time. Anyway, seeing my children are in suffers,this
could hurt me a lot. I don't know how to raise them until I have my real children.

Amphaphan 044 4EN

I would give them freedom.
They should be free to learn how to live their lives.
I would teach them, take care of them and protect them.
But I would let them make decisions of their own.

Suttida 058 4EN

I would do what I should do.
I think I would not expect too much from my children because they will not be happy for sure.
All I have to do is to give them all my love and support them as much as I can.
Yolradee 033 3EN

If I were a parent, I will raise my kids by letting them face the real world.
Life is their own. I want them to learn everything around them by themselves.
I will take care of them and suggest them as I am their friend.

Chonthicha 041 4EN

It is interesting but difficult question.
If I have my own baby, I will raise them as same as my parents did.
They just tell me what is good and bad and let me make a decision to do everything by myself.
One thing that I can feel is the "trust". My parents trust me!
So, when I start doing sometime, I will think about it too much because I don't want to break my parents' trust. All parents need is just their kids growing up as good people, having a good life.
I want these thing happened to my kid too.

Jutaporn011 4EN

I will force them to find their way of living by teaching them to learn what is beneficial for them and also good for the society.
Working hard on good grade is not my goal to provide my children.
But being a person that can touch his/her feeling to be or do what they want to be is my point.
Education is important to have a better life so I will force my student to gain a lot of knowledge from studying by not going ro force them to be the thing that they don't like but cheer them to deeply learn in their interesting ways.
And the most important thing that I'll teach them to think.
I hate that people nowadays are too weak to bare losing in the social value to easily.
They party all night thinking that it's cool and don't think of people who love them the most will be sad about their habits.
That doesn't mean that if parents don't know, it'll be fine!!
There is secret in this world one day your parent will know.
Acoording to that idea, I will be friend and mom at the same time to my children.
Forcing them too much and being with pretended children doesn't give my children a better life.
Work hard to be yours not to be mine.
Give them love not to give them pressure.
Give them good life not give them hell life.


Dolnapa 051 3EN

The second one is my best choice, it was exactly the same as my parents did.
Anyway, it depends on many families, not everyone growing up for a good life by the same choice.


Nudsaba 020 4EN

"Tough love"
I won't spoil my child to do bad things and negative attitude.
I will do my best for my child.


Patimaporn 021 4EN

"Do what you really like"
From my experience, my parents think what it suitable for me.
They ask me about my attitude, but actually they already prepare a good thing for me.
My children will do what they like. I don't spoil them.
They have to know what is good or bad by themself.



Kavintra 045 4EN

If I were a parent
- I will raise them to be strong.
- I will not force them to do things that they don't like
- I will teach them to be honest
- I will teach them not being selfish


Kunpriya 010 4EN

I would raise my kids as me right now. Even if I'm not a perfect one, but I think my kids would like the way I raise them. My parents are quite free for me to think and do what I want. Sometimes I did wrong they never punish or blame to me. They came to me talked and gave me a big hug! They are so proud of me even I did little thing. I like the way my parents raise me. If I have kids I would raise my kids as the way my parents did to me!

PORNPAN 024 4EN

Do not give the fish to them, let them find the way to fish a fish.
This is the thing I would do if I was a parent.
I would let them do whatever they want but it should be in the good way.
I would let them do whatever they like, the things that they thought they really want to do.
But when they down I would give my hand to raise them up and give them advice.
I would not bring them to whatever and wherever they want, they must reach them by themselves because they choose that way the want and like by themselves.


Sakolsupa 035 4EN